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absolutely not crazy behavior from them tf. Tell them to get take out
there's no more context? she was just like "hey you're hosting and cooking for us"?
NTA 2 hours in advance is not enough time to cook for that many people and they should have pitched in to help.
We had plans to help her uncle move and it went from “I’m picking you up at 12” to “can you cook for us and we hang out at your place?”