not weird! they are trying to fuck that’s why they ghosted

559

they ghost you because theyre tryna get you there to fuck not an actual date stand youre ground and continue suggesting cafes and restaurants dont ever allow them to get you to their house

128

never go to a private place for a first date, it’s dangerous. sorry they keep ghosting :( but much better to be safe then sorry

91

Not weird at all, and definitely the safest option. Some guys are just dumb and think with their dick and not their brain🙄

61

Asking to go to a public place is absolutely fucking normal, they 100% were expecting a hook up which even then if you’re hooking up I feel like a coffee date, lunch, or just somewhere public to meet up first is always a good idea and for me is a must

45

Nta, you’re actively avoiding having your own dateline episode

44

They’re trying to hookup. I don’t think I’ve ever asked someone to go to my place on a first date 😭

23

It’s not weird and frankly someone suggesting a non neutral place or trying to push past someone saying they want to meet in a neutral location is a bright red flag and potentially dangerous

20

It’s even more weird for them to want to go to a house first date… sketchy if you ask me

17

Not weird! I’m not ace but when I was on the market if I wanted it to be something more long term we always met in a public space with going to someone’s house being on the table if the vibes were good enough.

16

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! ALWAYS start off in a neutral third location. those who ghost you or get weird about it are weirdos themselves trying to take advantage of you!!

16

they were trying to fuck, if a girl asked to meet her at a cafe i would be relieved

15

Bro a neutral location for the first date is how it’s supposed to be

14

How is that not like a expected thing in people’s mind? I always thought a first date would obviously be somewhere neutral 🗿

12

My main concern going to someone’s place isn’t because I don’t wanna hook up it’s that I don’t want to end up in a true crime documentary. You’re not weird. They’re weird

11

Definitely not too much to ask

11

you have to wonder if they’d even pay attention if you added “I AM ASEXUAL”to the top of your first photo

9

Men are rlly not afraid of getting set up and/robbed 💀. Too quick to send their address.

8

That’s literally the bare minimum never go to someone’s house for a first date.

7

no bro that’s on them begging weird

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