
A man who *demands* kids is a cruel man. I'm so sorry. You will never be the asshole for a situation like this. Please remember that it is always your choice to have kids or not and removing your uterus for ANY reason is completely valid. You could've had a hysterectomy just to avoid having kids and you still wouldn't be an asshole. The fact alone that it was for medical reasons is enough to say that anyone who is mad that you can't birth a child is the asshole here.