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AITA 13w
aita for being pissed off at my friend for flexing her purse full of cash and her vacation out of the country when she owes me $200 and i’m short on my rent
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Anonymous 13w

Start charging interest

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Anonymous 13w

NTA

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Anonymous 13w

Time to never let them borrow money ever again

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Anonymous 13w

Not the asshole at all. Tell her you are aware she is perfectly capable of paying you back and is choosing not to and you want her to pay you back within the week.

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Anonymous 13w

thanks for the responses yall. when i asked my other friends irl about it they were defending her saying she had bills to pay, she’s excited about making more money, etc. as if i also don’t have bills and am just bitter

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Anonymous 13w

This is a reasonable reason to crash out

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Anonymous 13w

That wouldn’t be my friend anymore

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Anonymous 13w

NTA, send her these responses lol. but i doubt you ever get that back :(

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Anonymous 13w

I’d actually go crazy

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Anonymous 13w

if she doesn't pay you back soon tell her dad and you'll get it quick

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Anonymous 13w

Nta to be mad about it; but just out of curiosity have you asked for it back yet?

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Anonymous 13w

NTA

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Anonymous 12w

So real. Had a friend send me a snap from Florence when they’ve owed me $450 for like 2 years atp

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Anonymous 13w

Honestly for $400 I’d even threaten petty claims

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Anonymous 13w

Did you reach out and remind her

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Anonymous 13w

Tell her pay you back tf

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Anonymous 13w

She’s not your friend

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Anonymous 13w

Do bears shit in the woods?

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Anonymous 13w

If $200 is the difference between you making rent you need to live further below your means

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

This is the move.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

Rephrase that: time to not let ANY FRIEND borrow money from you. Honestly I refuse any friend anytime unless it’s cheap drinks or sum because this has happened many time and it’s just best not to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

Yeah i don’t lend money either, only meals sometimes but they’ll usually get me back

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

i definitely learned my lesson. we’ve been best friends for 10 years so i thought i could trust her to get it back to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Nah, if they’re flaunting money and expensive things like vacations when they owe you money, they’re the asshole.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

Yeah wtf the pocket full of cash and vacations there is no defending her. They probs glaze her cause she buys them drinks or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

One time I borrowed 4$ from my friend to get ice cream from a truck when we were working at summer camp together in our first year of uni, it felt so awkward asking but I never had ice cream from a truck since I was 6 or something lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Real

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

I think small things are different bc they’re not gonna affect them as much and it’s easier to pay back. Sometimes i’ll ask my friends to pay for a $4 ice cream or a meal and i’ll either buy theirs next time or pay them back the next day. It’s just like big things, like $20 or over where it gets iffy and becomes more of an issue if that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 13w

her car got towed while she was out visiting me and she didn’t have the money to get it back at the time so i spotted her :/ regret

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

100%. Charge a reasonable rate and start accruing it. Give her like 1 year to pay off her debt. If she doesn’t pay it off sign off the debt to a collection agency. Use the interest (which may prompt u to delay the debt even longer) to pay off the collection agency. Then it’s off ur hands and it will really screw ur “friend” over

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Anonymous replying to -> blellow_banana66 13w

Synau

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

🤷 Obviously NTA but bffr

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

did her car get towed in your neighborhood?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Is there any chance that she thought you were paying for it since she was coming to see you or something? Like did you ever specify you wanted her to pay you back for it?

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 13w

yes cs honestly, if someone got towed on my account i wouldn’t expect the money back unless it was specified. that’s why i asked was it in the neighborhood. my apartment complex is real specific on where guests can park

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 13w

she promised to pay me back in april

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 13w

she parked where my boyfriend parks all the time it was so weird

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Anonymous replying to -> blellow_banana66 13w

i’m in college and my parents pay for everything except that. i work part time because of school

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

If it’s dire you can borrow $200 on cash app but I would be calling this girls parents atp ngl

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