AITA on Yik Yak | Aita for being mad at my friend on her bday. I took her to the movies paid for tickets and food and drove her even though im sparse on money. She stayed on her phone and didn’t ask for a ride just expected it. She didn’t even say thank u after (we’re 18)

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AITA 5w

Aita for being mad at my friend on her bday. I took her to the movies paid for tickets and food and drove her even though im sparse on money. She stayed on her phone and didn’t ask for a ride just expected it. She didn’t even say thank u after (we’re 18)

Anonymous 5w

she sounds like a bitch tbh, the friends u have at 18 don’t last forever!

Anonymous 5w

Well when I was like 17 or 18 I used to say thank you to friends for stuff like that and they made fun of me so idk. But I feel u on my birthday I paid for everything

Anonymous 5w

it probably would have been ~ideal~ to bring it up after the birthday or just quietly not invite her to the next outing if it’s a pattern of behavior, but it’s understandable to be annoyed and react in the moment. i’m going to say soft NTA leaning toward NAH depending on the context of the friendship, what else could be upsetting her, whom else she could be busy replying to, etc. for example, my dad passed away about a month after my 19th, and i was def totally checked out while he was sick.

Anonymous

#1 5w

Were girls. I thanked her for coming and she said “yup” she stayed on her phone taking selfies and posted them. She didn’t take any pictures with me or did anyone know we went together or that I treated her to the movies.

Anonymous

#1 5w

Also it was her bday not mine

Anonymous

OP 5w

yea no she’s a cunt tbh

Anonymous

#3 5w

Ty for the feedback. For clarity, she wasn’t upset at anything and she regularly gets me bday gifts. I pay for all of her gifts and I’m broke her parents pays for mine. She was on her phone either taking selfies or texting her online bf and after she posted the selfies and the movie theatre but she didn’t caption it or mention me. She gets me good gifts on my bday but this year she didn’t gift me.I still gifted her to show her I care but hurts being unappreciated

Anonymous

#3 5w

Also it was just me and her and no one else.

Anonymous

OP 5w

that’s tough. it sounds like you might be growing apart as friends, which is really hard but happens a lot at that age when you’re going through a lot of change really quickly.