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Would it be considered disrespectful to my partner if my family friends kid (M), thats my age, that i met this past week on vacation and I (F) got drinks one on one till 2 AM and went to the beach after ?
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Anonymous 1d

Yes. Me personally, I would feel super suspicious about that.

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Anonymous 6h

Depends on what boundaries yall have but if you have to ask it’s probably a yes. Is it not possible to hang out some other time and do something different like a lunch?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

But I would say “asshole” is a strong word for that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Just felt like AITA was best subyak to ask this question. Felt it filled the mold of the question i was asking. More so why i started with the disrespectful part.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Would it be disrespectful just one on one drinks but no beach after?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Personally the drinks feel more suspicious than the beach. But both would be a bad look to me if my partner did it. We both hang out with our friends one on one, but it’s a lot harder to get jealous (even if it’s unfounded) when they’re somewhere that’s not a common place for picking people up

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