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AITA for contacting my exes mom to try to get my stuff back? We’ve been broken up since March and he’s refused every arrangement I’ve tried to do to get it back. He blocked me on everything and has had a new gf since April. I just want my shit back bro
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Anonymous 9w

That’s not even a question it’s literally your stuff why dose he need it?

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Anonymous 9w

Nta seems like it’s j your stuff and he’s being avoidant and mom seems helpful

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Anonymous 9w

?? If I were his parent I’d beat his ass lmao fuck you keeping other peoples stuff for 😂

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Anonymous 9w

Nta

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Anonymous 9w

Not the asshole, i hope she is nice and lets you get it 😭

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Anonymous 9w

Honestly if you have proof it’s yours you could try getting the police involved because that’s actually so stupid of him

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Anonymous 9w

Take to small claims court - one of their most common filings

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Anonymous 9w

NTA!! My ex-gf did the same to me. I think it’s just one last way for them to grasp onto the slightest bit of power they may have over you. Do whatever you have to do to get your stuff back.

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Anonymous 9w

did he buy the stuff? he may have a grudge

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Anonymous 9w

NTA

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Anonymous 9w

I contacted my ex’s sister.

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Anonymous 9w

NTA

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Anonymous 8w

Get your stuff back. He is obvs a person who likes control and it wouldn’t be wrong to have the police help you put him in check. Every female in his future would be appreciative of you.

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Anonymous 7w

im sorry, ur not getting ur stuff back. they might have gotten rid of it, you dont know. they could have broke it, thrown it out, did whatever after the breakup. its in their hands not yours anymore. i would just take ur losses and just get over the fact that whatever they had of yours is gone forever. sorry.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

literally did not buy any of it. It’s like my tshirts he’d wear and pajama pants from when he impromptu slept over at my house. Plus my scrapbook kit

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I literally don’t know. His mom has been like gather it up for her to bring to me and the refuses to do that. He also had the option to mail it to me and hasn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 9w

🤨 involving the police over pajama pants?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

Im coming over rn to steal all the pants out your drawers since thats cool with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

is that really crazy though?? he’s the strange one for not giving her stuff back. ppl gotta stop doing dumb shit, could’ve been resolved w/o the police if he would’ve done the right thing the 1st time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

Yeah I mean it’s op’s stuff and he clearly has zero intention of giving it back. It’s stealing. It might seem like a minor offense to you but seeing op’s dedication to get the items back gives me the impression it’s important or enough items to be problematic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

He literally got a new gf like a month after we broke up (she has the same 1st and last name as me btw) so there’s no reason to keep my stuff

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Anonymous 9w

Very valid. You could also try and contact the gf 😂 that would be a power move for sure

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 9w

It’s like nothing crazy but there’s literally no reason for him to keep all that stuff. It’s more so the principle of it and me just not wanting to have ties to him anymore. His mom texts me how I’m doing but that’s about it. This whole situation is a shit show and I’m over it

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 9w

she has no idea about me and I don’t want any more shit from that coward LMAPOO

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Having the same first and last name as you too that’s wild

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

right? I feel like I have the right to go a little crazy after everything especially that 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

How could you not go a little crazy when she has the exact name as you😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

I needed this validation LMAOOOO

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

Dose🥀 ain’t this a college app?

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 7w

I mean he’s in the military so I’m not surprised with the control thing but he’s weird af

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 7w

Don’t listen to this guy Sue em if you’ve got the money

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 7w

the last time I talked to his mom she said he still had it and she found an engagement ring with a receipt from when we were still together

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

I don’t got the money 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

In small claims court you might be able to self represent

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Oh wild! Now I’m so curious about how your relationship ended lol

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 7w

ummm he had army training that weekend and his friends that started the gun thing were staying with him and that made me super anxious. We fought about it all week until I was just like whatever because he said he’d choose his friends over me. At this point he had lied to me so much and did shit similar to that so I was planning on breaking up with him later on. I just had big exams and trips for school coming up and I couldn’t bring myself to do it

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 7w

That Friday he gets back from training and has an attitude while he’s calling me but he said he just has a headache and stuff. He goes because his friends get there. That’s the last I talked to him. He texts me that they’re going to get food and I say okay I love you goodnight and he leaves me on read. The next day he has training again and I hear nothing from him. His friends chronically cheat on their gfs so when hanging out after training that day I was like hey please don’t go to the bar

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 7w

With them. It’s around 7pm and I haven’t heard anything so I text. Nothing. I call nothing. I start freaking out thinking something happened and call like crazy and still nothing. I get a blank Snapchat at 10:30 and nothing else. Sunday I hear nothing so I call his mom and she’s like he’s home but he’s really sick. Monday nothing. Monday night at 10 I get a breakup text over fucking Snapchat and he shut off his phone so I couldn’t call. I called his mom and told her she’s fucking pissed trying

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 7w

Force him to talk to me and he won’t. Weeks go by he never even opens my texts or anything. He never responded. He never responded to me asking for my stuff. Started talking to the new girl in early April, we broke up March 10th. So yeah I never got an answer as to why but we were having problems because of his friends and him changing to fit in with them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Oh that’s so insanely crazy. Not only did he break up with you like that, he’s holding your stuff hostage! That’s so stupid!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

how long were u guys together? that sounds very odd if u were with him for years. but then again, i did what he did to you, to my ex so....

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

what the fuck??? is she related to you or something?? thats so creepy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 7w

We were together 2.5 years. He never told me anything was wrong or anything

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 7w

plus the new girl is very eerily similar to me it’s insane. With the same first and last name

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

This is probably morbid but maybe she’s easier to manipulate so he feels he can still have you but fix the things he doesn’t like or something

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 7w

I mean I wouldn’t be surprised. He just wants someone who will put up with his BS without putting in any effort. Idk much about her besides the name and that’s she’s younger than him. And that we have similar interests. He’s gonna do to her what he did to me so

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 7w

no relation at all. Trust me I checked

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