
Out, I'm not going. I reminded her earlier and she still hasn't sent it. She's in bed now and I'm about to sleep too. I plan to remind her one last time in the morning. I feel bad though because I know she relies on me with this stuff but I can't be sitting around wasting my time when I'm trying to not sit at home all afternoon
NTA, that’s pretty reasonable. you gave her plenty of time to get a list together and get it to you, and gave her a clear and set time to have it by. if she gets upset, just mention you gave her a deadline you needed the list by and had other plans you couldn’t blow off. if it doesn’t work out, just try to go another time you have free time