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My gf was trying to self harm and lock herself in the car during a 86° day for over an hour. When she finally answered phone I came to the car and immediately grabbed her out of the car because she was heaving for air. She said I put my hands on her?
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Anonymous 5w

Check her into a mental hospital

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Anonymous 5w

I’m praying for her that she gets the help she needs 🙏

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Anonymous 5w

I was going to call the police about it and the freaked out and drove off. I am not a person that puts my hands on anyone, she was on the verge of passing out

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Anonymous 5w

Forsureeee dude , thank you so much i appreciate your words ! It means a lot 🥲🥲

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Anonymous 5w

Absolutely not. My bf once accidentally dislocated my shoulder (I have a connective tissue disorder so it just happens sometimes) and I would never EVER think to say he did it on purpose. You were helping her. Her head is clearly not in the right place and unfortunately she has made it unsafe for you to continue helping her. You need to alert friends or family and tell them what happened ASAP. It might make her mad but it might also save her life

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Anonymous 5w

Please get her checked into a mental hospital or something 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Dude after today, she really made it so clear that she needs help

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

She sounds manic for sure, you need to remove yourself from the situation for your own good honestly and get her help if you feel called to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Like I seen her in the car dude like actually sweating like a fuckin pig and gasping for air. Yeah I shouldn’t have touched her, but I tried to pull her out of that car, that shit scared tf outta me . If I didn’t come when I did she would’ve ended up passing out or dying, straight up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

No u did the right thing but for your safety get out of there and tell someone please I’ve been there before and there’s nothing you can do but let her deal with it on her own for at least a while

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thank you ! I super appreciate that, I just had a bad issue with an ex that would threaten to call the police/family on me for hitting her when I never did. That shit was traumatic af and that’s all I felt this whole day. I actually recorded some of the phone call with her saying what she was trying to do as well, because I don’t want anything on my name

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yes please protect yourself you got it in the end you’re not responsible for her which ik sucks to hear but truly just watch out especially if ur feeling the same thing you’ve felt in your gut before

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Ofcccc

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Definitely dude I really made sure I recorded calls and text and I uploaded them on my computer. I started talkin to my friends about the shit and I will communicating discreetly to some close mutual friends about this shit. Became regardless, I saved her life, and she is horrified of being institutionalized. Which would mean she would have to come out and speak about her main objective was to cause harm or unalive herself

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