Honestly your first mistake was having sex with someone who would put you in this situation, but given where you’re at, I don’t think you have an obligation to get married. That’s stupid. Don’t just up and disappear, that’s an asshole move, but I personally don’t think you have an obligation to remain romantically involved.

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Yes. You can be on birth control and use condoms and still end up pregnant. You did the crime, now it’s time to do the time 🤷‍♀️ welcome to parenthood, dad.

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Honestly (as a woman) sort of NTA because you also have the choice to not raise the baby if you don’t want to since it’s your baby as well, however you should’ve been more responsible and you should at least pay child support

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Don’t leave her in to raise this kid on her own. That the asshole move BUT don’t marry someone you don’t love bc of the kid. Just be involved

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fascinating comment section

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Actions have consequences

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tie it UP omlllllllllllll😭🤧

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This is the natural consequence of what happened. If you need surport you can visit standing with you. Org for free help

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Saddle up my dude ur a dad know and if you bail that’s super slimy cause you knew the consequences

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Yes

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First mistake was being anywhere near a conservative.

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To get married? Not a requirement from you, to completely abandon them? Yeah…

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If this is a true story then I do NOT envy you. It’s hard enough trying to feed and take care of myself. I can’t imagine adding a child on top of school and work. Good luck man.

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YTA. Cmon now. Use your brain.

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Maybe when you’re a dad then you can teach your child right from wrong so we don’t have another Epstein on our hands

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YTA

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as a woman I don’t blame you if she’s insisting on marriage. you don’t owe her your life, but at least send child support or smth don’t leave her completely on her own.

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What does her being MAGA have to do with any of this, other than showing her political views didn’t impact your choice to repeatedly bone her?

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I mean, why did you believe her? Part of the whole MAGA mindset is “anything that prevents conception is evil, and let’s breed Democrats into obscurity”. They think BC is evil

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Don’t get married, but also stay in the kids life, or at least help financially. You had sex, you know what happens? Babies. That’s a risk you take any time you have sex, protected or not.

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yes

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Don’t do activities that make babies if you don’t want babies!

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naw fuck dat MAGA bitch she gon find out that trump does not care abt her the hard way loll

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