AITA on Yik Yak | Aita for not visiting my friend at school? I’ve been home due to being sick the last year and I’ve visited another friend who is an hour away a couple times. But my other friend is upset I’ve never came to see her but it’s 12 hours away -

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Aita for not visiting my friend at school? I’ve been home due to being sick the last year and I’ve visited another friend who is an hour away a couple times. But my other friend is upset I’ve never came to see her but it’s 12 hours away -

Anonymous 1w

Hell nah. 12 hours?!?! WTF is up with that friend. Simply say you can’t make it there

Anonymous 1w

I don’t have a car (i borrow my parents’ for the day trip, this would at least be a weekend). And honestly I’m at a point where I shouldn’t be so far from home, I crash really easily. My friend that’s an hour away has always understood this, I visit her and we chill at her house. My other friend wants to take me out to the bars and tours and so on which sounds really nice but my health is not up for that and I’ve communicated that but idk I almost feel like she doesnt believe me

Anonymous 1w

NTA. They haven’t came and visited you. Goes both ways. Can the friend meet you in the middle?

Anonymous 6d

Nah if she doesn’t have time to meet half way even then she sure as shit doesn’t have time to bring hou around and take you out to bars. On top of her completely ignoring all of the other complications.

Anonymous

#1 1w

The issue is this is my 3rd semester home and I’ve already said that for the last 2 but she keeps on asking, even asked if I could make it up for my birthday weekend when I’m literally going to be less than a week post op atp, which she knows about so I can’t go anywhere. Again it’s weird it’s like she doesn’t believe the severity of my situation.

Anonymous

#2 1w

I agree and I would never expect her to come visit me either home or when I’d be at school because I know she’s busy and it would be hard for her to put it together. She’s a student athlete and she’s in season so I don’t think she’d have any time to meet halfway.