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AITA 38w
AITA For being annoyed that this guy I flirt with ALWAYS assumes I'm upset or not feeling well whenever I'm not in *the mood*. Most of the time I'm feeling fine, I just don't want anything sexual at the moment. I appreciate the concern but it feels weird.
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Anonymous 38w

Oh ew NTA he sounds icky

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Anonymous 38w

NTA, as long as u communicate how ur feeling bc he might have anxious attachment and overthink like what if u don’t like him or something

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Anonymous 38w

girl drop him. That’s the kind of dude down the line to take it as a personal attack if you’re not in the mood “but he’s been nice to you all day.” If you’re not in the mood you’re not in the mood. Don’t need to justify or explain it.

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Anonymous 38w

Maybe you’re being weird about not being in the mood and he’s just reading your body language

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 38w

All I do is say something like "sorry, I'm not feeling it right now", and change the subject.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 38w

Sure but your body language is much louder than your voice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 38w

Well there's no body language to read because he's currently in another state so we've just been texting.

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