Nta, sorry you have to even ask. Not wanting to try it at all is valid and should be taken as the final word on it, as should trying it once and not liking it.

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NTA, this is genuinely so sad that he's trying to get you to do this again and again knowing you don't like it and especially if you have trauma. I won't tell you what to do but toh he seems like he is not respecting your boundaries at all you don't need to try it multiple times you know you don't like it and that should be the end of the conversation. I would seriously consider if this relationship is worth it to you because it seems like he doesn't respect you or ur feelings.

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You’re not. Especially if you’ve already explained to him your situation and why you don’t like it. Then again, even if you didn’t share that with him-he should respect your boundaries. And honestly, if he wants some ass that bad, tell him to go find a man

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most men who enjoy doing anal with girls like it BECAUSE it’s painful for the girl. ur bf doesn’t like or respect you and you need to leave. he’s pushing your boundaries by repeatedly asking after you said you don’t like it

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Honestly anal is kinda just nasty to me. Like brah, you shit outta there

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break up! break up!

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NTA it is your body and you dictate what you are comfortable with and what you’re not. It is horrible that he is pressuring you to do that whether or not you went through trauma. I hate to say this, but I would rethink your relationship. It is not normal for people to pressure you or coerce you to do anything.

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NTA. I’m so sorry. If he wants anal so bad, you should peg him 💕

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NTA. Even if you didn’t have trauma surrounding it you still wouldn’t be TA. You are allowed to say no at any point during sex and your bf trying to push back on that, ESP considering your past trauma around it, is a massive red flag.

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He’s the asshole like super the asshole that is such a massive red flag if he is pressuring you it is not consensual

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Nta. no is no and you deserve to be listened to. if you don’t like something he should love you enough and respect you enough to be intimate in other ways

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