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AITA 12w
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for rarely hanging out with me or talking to me, I understand we are both busy with school and work but he can barely take the time to hang out with me or talk to me but he’s always gaming or with friends (cont)
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Anonymous 12w

I think you should find someone willing to give you the kind of relationship you want. If he found time to game or hang with his friends then he just isn't making you part of his priorities. Also i find it alarming that if he comes over its that late at night (unless maybe school/job are in the way?) like i would definitely feel like a booty call

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Anonymous 12w

My last gf did this to me. Just break up and save yourself the trouble honestly. He isn’t willing to make time for you and that won’t change

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Anonymous 12w

I maybe get one night if not an afternoon/one night a weekend with him and we only live 10 mins away from eachother but i just feel like im not a priority anymore and we’ve had multiple conversations about this i just almost feel like there’s no effort until i get upset

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Besides this he’s pretty great , he patata for things, calls me pretty and drives everywhere but I’m a Quality time person and I’m not wanting to be together 24/7 but more than a boring five min phone call or coming over at 10pm and falling asleep half through the movie I want to go places and do things but he never has time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I know I also felt like this was alarming because it’d usually be about 8-10pm when he’d come over and he’d always try have to sex and then if I didn’t sometimes he’d just fall asleep but other times he would hang out with me for a while then fall asleep but he’s saying he’s working so hard for me and for us by working so many hours 6-3pm… and he does go to school 2-3 days a week and has a good amount of homework but I just need more and I’m tired of complaining about it to him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Maybe I will end it with him

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