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AITA 5w
yall I love my friend and she's one of my bffs but she gets annoyed at me all the time I don't know what to do. Shes annoyed at me because she thinks all I do is study and sleep and I don't want to hang tn but I barely slept and had a full day of classes
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Anonymous 5w

I mean do you regularly flake or something? If not this is pretty normal behavior, your friend shouldn’t be bothered that you’re taking care of yourself

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Anonymous 5w

I was studying last night because I was freaking out about an exam and didn’t sleep and then said it wasn’t her fault that I never go to bed

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Anonymous 5w

I think you guys have different rules of friendship and how it works in your heads. You could either communicate and get on the same page or realize that compromising won’t work and find friends that have a more compatible hang out style

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Anonymous 5w

Nta if you can’t have a conversation that explains all of this and gets you on the same page about it then it’s not gonna work out

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Anonymous 5w

drop her don’t let yourself deal with that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

in her mind I’m always making excuses to not hang out but she texts me randomly and gets mad if I’m busy or if I don’t want to go, if we make actual plans I’m ALWAYS there even if I don’t totally feel like it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

and then she said*

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