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I (wlw) said I am generally not attracted to white women. My friend (white woman) asked if I’d date her. I said no. She got offended but played it off saying she wasn’t actually mad. AITA for giving my honest opinion to her question??
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Anonymous 15h

no queen

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Anonymous 15h

as a white non-american woman you’re good. i’m not attracted to people outside of my culture as well. idk what your friend expected, that’s kind of weird to expect anything else right after your initial statement. hope she’s not actually mad

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Anonymous 10h

honestly even if you hadn’t just said that, it’s a weird question to ask a friend imo. don’t ask questions if you’re gonna get mad at an honest answer (nta)

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Anonymous 5h

nta. she's silly for being offended and kinda shows why you're not generally attracted to white women... i find they may feel entitled to be perceived as attractive, bc they feel they are the "standard" for what's attractive. no one is owed to be someone's type, even if you're friends.

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Anonymous 2h

No- she asked

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Anonymous 2h

Now that being said, if you had laughed in her face and called her hideous and said you would never in a million years even consider her…THEN you’d be in the wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

I hope so too 😭

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