AITA on Yik Yak | I know it sounds harsh but to me if you defend abusers you deserve to be the next victim since most people don’t care until it happens to them

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AITA 6d

I know it sounds harsh but to me if you defend abusers you deserve to be the next victim since most people don’t care until it happens to them

Anonymous 6d

def a little harsh - those people don’t deserve anything good in life but it makes you no better than an abuser to wish it onto someone else. i understand it’s frustrating, but more violence will never solve violence.

Anonymous

#1 5d

Well considering I experienced that abuse and people have sided with my abuser and told me I deserve it, pretty hard to believe I’m the same as an abuser for saying those people should experience the same pain they cause to others

Anonymous

OP 5d

I also want to add that to me it’s the equivalent of wishing harm on your abuser bc everyone who sides with them and defends them is actively perpetuating what allows them to be harmful and furthering the pain the victim went through. Like my sexual abuse was bad but what hurt more and stuck with me more is everyone blaming me and that’s the way it is for a lot of people. Defending and protecting them makes you as guilty as the abuser