AITA on Yik Yak | I told my friend I can’t keep driving her to work (30 mins) for the entire summer because she doesn’t have a license, but now she won’t talk to me because she says I “don’t understand how her anxiety is crippling” (since that’s why she doesn’t drive)

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AITA 16w

I told my friend I can’t keep driving her to work (30 mins) for the entire summer because she doesn’t have a license, but now she won’t talk to me because she says I “don’t understand how her anxiety is crippling” (since that’s why she doesn’t drive)

Anonymous 16w

She needs to uber or take the train she’s a big girl she can figure it out. tell her your car is in the shop for a few weeks or something.

Anonymous 16w

Genuinely F her! Her finances or driving anxiety ain’t your problem! In a few years you’ll graduate and go your own ways and everything you did for her will be meaningless! Whereas your job experience and the money you get saved up may be the thing that sets up your future!

Anonymous 16w

Not sure what to do

Anonymous 16w

Drop her. 🙂

Anonymous 16w

before i got a car i walked 30 mins one way to and from work. Rain, cold, and shine.

Anonymous 16w

if there’s a will, there’s a way. she is not your responsibility at all.

Anonymous

#1 16w

Yeah but it’s not your problem she needs to do public transport sometimes and other times you can drive her.

Anonymous

#1 16w

Like she can’t only rely on you that’s weird

Anonymous

#3 16w

Thank you! I’ve been going back and forth bc I’ve been exhausted having to get up early to drive her when I already work a full time job during the day, online intern at night and part time job on the weekend. But I really wasn’t sure if it was bitchy to say no. So thank you to everybody who commented!

Anonymous

OP 16w

Send her to a therapist, not your problem

Anonymous 15w

my point really is u just figure that shit out