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Sometimes I wish my girlfriend took fitness as seriously as I do. I love her the way she is so much but it’s fun to have a goal with her and I wish she would go to the gym with me more often. Am I the asshole?
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Anonymous 7w

I’d say make an effort to start viewing goals differently. It’s more effective to make a goal together like “go to the gym three times a week for an hour” than “lose weight.” If you want her to join you at a goal, make it one that’s directly achievable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I like this and it’s also how I made the gym go from a chore to an actual hobby

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