Anonymous #2 1d

Respectfully I disagree. Sex is a form of intimacy and it’s perfectly normal to want it

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Anonymous #1 1d

There are other forms of intimacy that exists as sex isn’t the only one. U can cuddle, kiss, make out, spend other forms of quality time w each other. A relationship built on whether a person’s sex drive matches his or her partner or how often u guys have sex isn’t built on a solid foundation at all whatsoever

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Anonymous #2 1d

Well those forms of intimacy aren’t enough for OP and everyone’s allowed to have their preferences. He’s doing the right thing by breaking up because it wouldn’t be fair to keep stringing her along when his needs aren’t being met. And they’ve been together for 2 years so sex wasn’t the foundation but it’s a natural part of life so at least he’s realizing they aren’t compatible anymore

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Anonymous #1 22h

If that’s not enough, then the problem lies with OP. But in a way, I am glad he’s doing the right thing by breaking up with her bc she clearly deserves a man who wouldn’t abandon her just because his sexual needs aren’t met while everything else is

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Anonymous #2 21h

You obviously don’t understand how compatibility works but that’s okay I guess you just have some growing up to do

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Anonymous #1 19h

Everyone can always grow even me. But as far as I’m concerned, compatibility shouldn’t concern anything sexual at all whatsoever. Relationships should be built on emotional security, trust, honesty, and all those other good things. Not how often someone would like to have sex

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Anonymous #2 19h

Whether you agree or not sexual compatibility is a real thing and just as important as trust for many people. Maybe it doesn’t matter to you but if it’s important for others it’s valid and you don’t have the right to dismiss how they feel about sex or lack of sex

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