AITA on Yik Yak | AITA for wanting to breakup with my gf since she has a low sex drive. We haven’t had much sex throughout our 2 year relationship and when I bring it up she says that the environment has killed her sex drive.

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AITA 8w

AITA for wanting to breakup with my gf since she has a low sex drive. We haven’t had much sex throughout our 2 year relationship and when I bring it up she says that the environment has killed her sex drive.

Anonymous 8w

NTA you deserve to be with someone who you’re sexually compatible with

Anonymous 7w

sounds like you can’t turn on ur girlfriend, watch some videos from WOMEN not on porn sites. make sure your place is clean, make sure it’s smells good in there maybe light a candle and make sure YOU smell good, maybe get a haircut if you need it, trim up a unibrow if necessary, and learn some new tricks in the bedroom… might i suggest using toys or what i call the three finger combo of two fingers in the vagina and thumb on the clit while u go back and forth

Anonymous 7w

You could try looking into other ways to increase her sex drive? Man idk I’m not a sex doctor. I know there are options tho. But if she has no interest to change at all then I’d lean more towards breaking up

Anonymous 7w

The environment? She’s obviously cheating on you with some kind of eco-terrorist hipster or something. Drop her.

Anonymous 8w

Sex shouldn’t matter in a loving relationship as long as you both love each other mutually. It shouldn’t be the deciding factor whatsoever

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Anonymous

#2 8w

Respectfully I disagree. Sex is a form of intimacy and it’s perfectly normal to want it

Anonymous

#1 8w

There are other forms of intimacy that exists as sex isn’t the only one. U can cuddle, kiss, make out, spend other forms of quality time w each other. A relationship built on whether a person’s sex drive matches his or her partner or how often u guys have sex isn’t built on a solid foundation at all whatsoever

Anonymous

#2 8w

Well those forms of intimacy aren’t enough for OP and everyone’s allowed to have their preferences. He’s doing the right thing by breaking up because it wouldn’t be fair to keep stringing her along when his needs aren’t being met. And they’ve been together for 2 years so sex wasn’t the foundation but it’s a natural part of life so at least he’s realizing they aren’t compatible anymore

Anonymous

#1 8w

If that’s not enough, then the problem lies with OP. But in a way, I am glad he’s doing the right thing by breaking up with her bc she clearly deserves a man who wouldn’t abandon her just because his sexual needs aren’t met while everything else is

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Anonymous

#2 8w

You obviously don’t understand how compatibility works but that’s okay I guess you just have some growing up to do

Anonymous

#1 8w

Everyone can always grow even me. But as far as I’m concerned, compatibility shouldn’t concern anything sexual at all whatsoever. Relationships should be built on emotional security, trust, honesty, and all those other good things. Not how often someone would like to have sex

Anonymous

#2 8w

Whether you agree or not sexual compatibility is a real thing and just as important as trust for many people. Maybe it doesn’t matter to you but if it’s important for others it’s valid and you don’t have the right to dismiss how they feel about sex or lack of sex

Anonymous

#1 7w

Having a need for sexual compatibility is like asking ur lungs “hey can I keep smoking and will u still be compatible enough to work with the needs of my body?”

Anonymous

#2 7w

You’re definitely rage baiting at this point lol that comparison is not logical at all like smoking is an addiction and sexual compatibility is about relationship alignment

Anonymous

#5 7w

also if she so generously gives u head make sure u wash down there REAL GOOD WITH NON SCENTED SOAP bc u don’t wanna mess up the ph in her vagina and give her a yeast infection but so most importantly, gently but firmly pull her hair back out of her face and do NOT push her head down further she will take as much as she can without gagging and gagging isn’t fun for women ok let her be

Anonymous

#1 7w

Relationship alingnment😂? I think it’s u who is rage baiting. How often someone wants to have sex shouldn’t matter whatsoever bc sex shouldn’t be a primary focus of a healthy relationship whatsoever but again, I’m not ur dad so u do u bud