There are definitely other communities for you to post this in.

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He stops to talk with me for a few minutes before I get off shift recently and he’s nice enough but he is also closer to my parents age than mine. So I heard guys don’t try to be nice to women unless they want something and idk if it’s the same thing (and coworker said he’s gotten into arguments with others) or if he’s just one of those people who is talkative and being nice or if he’s like flirting with me? But it doesn’t feel like flirting??? Am I over thinking???

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Overthinking, unless he has made very obvious “flirty” comments. He probs just doesn’t have conversations with many people and he knows you are there every night and can have a quick convo with you. Maybe he would feel awkward just walking by. Sometimes I make conversation with others not because I want to or I’m into them but because they are at a desk I’m passing by and it would seem rude not to

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