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I have a friend that’s very “I just live in the moment” (which isn’t really true. everything about her personality is performative). anyway if me or anyone else asks to take a pic (which lasts MAX 30 secs) she gets mad and refuses to smile in the pics-
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Anonymous 2d

my AITA is I just quit posting the pics she’s in. she’s clearly unhappy being in them so why would I post her looking mad. but now she’s mad I don’t post the pics she’s in

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Anonymous 1d

It feels as if you don’t really like this “friend”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

well she has fat shamed me multiple times (I’m not even fat she’s just very skinny). she always talks over me. she doesn’t listen to me vent “bc of her mental health” but always wants me to listen to her. my parents fully paid for her to go to Disney with us and she kept walking too fast for them to keep up, shit talking them for being “too slow,” complained the whole time. also on that trip she got there hours late bc she wouldn’t travel there with us and then she got mad that we were all antsy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

waiting around for her for HOURS. like she thought we should’ve just sat and did nothing and waited for her. she always has to one up any achievement you do. she talks like she’s better than everyone else in the friend group bc her parents paid for her out of state college, paid for her to move to the city, pay every year for an abroad vacation, etc. but then she always whines that she’s oppressed. she constantly makes disgusted faces at everyone in the friend group

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I think it’s time to move on from this person if possible, is she like that with other people in the group? I come from a Disney family and I’d go batshit crazy if someone did that on a fully paid trip 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

she literally made us almost miss multiple events bc she was leading us. my mom like wanted to go see a show but she walked us to a bathroom instead bc she and only she had to go (she’d JUST gone). we almost missed some other event bc she just walked off to get herself coffee. but yes, she is like this to everyone else to the point that my friend group has just been me, her, and my twin multiple times bc the others leave bc of her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Drop her ass, life’s too short to make room for that energy in your life

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