
I probably will. We haven’t been together for long but I’ve basically had to act like a mom to him ever since we got together. And he still lives with his parents (not hating on that) but his mom does everything for him. He doesn’t take care of himself unless his mom or me help him
I’m not going to tell you what to do in a relationship but I was a “mom” for one of the relationships I’ve had and it ended up being a huge waste of time because he never stepped up when I needed him to. I broke up with him after 3 YEARS just because I wanted more and he still was dependent on his family.
I had my own issues at the time, but a year after that relationship, I started dating an older guy (he was 31, I was 24) and holy shit the maturity difference was very nice. He had a career, a house, his own car, etc. He takes care of himself and does his own stuff without depending on others. I am engaged to him now 😍
Ahhh! I love that for you! I hate having to act like a mom towards him and I barely have time for myself when I have to focus on him and everything about him since he can barely function with out his mommy’s attention or mine. So I told him we need to talk and I’m gonna break it off today