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My bf posts himself with a towel around his waist and I don’t like it when he does that but says me posting myself in a bikini is the exact same thing. I feel like an a-hole for telling him that I don’t like him posting towel pics. Am I in the wrong?
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Anonymous 42w

Nta, you posting bikini pics is like him posting swimsuit/shirtless pics. Him posting himself in a towel would be like you posting yourself in a towel, which I’m sure u don’t do.

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Anonymous 42w

It is sort of hypocritical of you if he also has an issue w you posting bikini pics

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Anonymous 42w

Post a towel pic see how he feels

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 42w

He doesn’t. If he did I wouldn’t post them. But he refuses to not post him in a towel. I hate it when he does that because he always has the towel super low and super filtered to make him look better.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 42w

I see And yeah a towel is a bit more suggestive than a swimsuit Ultimately though you can’t control what he posts, so if it’s a big issue for you, you may need to end things

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 42w

I probably will. We haven’t been together for long but I’ve basically had to act like a mom to him ever since we got together. And he still lives with his parents (not hating on that) but his mom does everything for him. He doesn’t take care of himself unless his mom or me help him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 42w

I’m not going to tell you what to do in a relationship but I was a “mom” for one of the relationships I’ve had and it ended up being a huge waste of time because he never stepped up when I needed him to. I broke up with him after 3 YEARS just because I wanted more and he still was dependent on his family.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 42w

I had my own issues at the time, but a year after that relationship, I started dating an older guy (he was 31, I was 24) and holy shit the maturity difference was very nice. He had a career, a house, his own car, etc. He takes care of himself and does his own stuff without depending on others. I am engaged to him now 😍

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 42w

Ahhh! I love that for you! I hate having to act like a mom towards him and I barely have time for myself when I have to focus on him and everything about him since he can barely function with out his mommy’s attention or mine. So I told him we need to talk and I’m gonna break it off today

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