AITA on Yik Yak | WIBTA for not going to a distant family member’s wedding? She’s getting married on my birthday next year and we’re not super close. Also it‘a a destination wedding, so not only would I have to skip my birthday — I’d have to save up for MONTHS just to go

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AITA 1w

WIBTA for not going to a distant family member’s wedding? She’s getting married on my birthday next year and we’re not super close. Also it‘a a destination wedding, so not only would I have to skip my birthday — I’d have to save up for MONTHS just to go

Anonymous 6d

nope easy nta who cares lol treat yourself its your damn birthday

Anonymous 1w

it’s your choice in the end whether or not you go, and i fully understand money is an issue. do you have closer relatives who could possibly be saddened by your absence?

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#1 1w

at the end of the day it is your decision whether or not you go, though! it sounds like you don’t want to, and that is perfectly understandable. i’m for the belief that if you’re going to have a destination wedding, you shouldn’t expect everyone you invite to come, including family because of the financial investment