AITA on Yik Yak | Imagine being with someone for almost a year. Dedicated your life to her. Did absolutely everything for her. But was treated like shit the entire relationship. She admitted it on video. AITA for allowing my ex to come over to hang for a few hours?

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Imagine being with someone for almost a year. Dedicated your life to her. Did absolutely everything for her. But was treated like shit the entire relationship. She admitted it on video. AITA for allowing my ex to come over to hang for a few hours?

8 upvotes, 24 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in AITA. "Imagine being with someone for almost a year. Dedicated your life to her. Did absolutely everything for her. But was treated like shit the entire relationship. She admitted it on video. AITA for allowing my ex to come over to hang for a few hours?"

Anonymous 8w

This sounds like such a mess I doubt this will ever turn into a healthy relationship

Anonymous 8w

Sooo.. you’re saying your girlfriend is treating you badly, so instead of breaking up with her you consider inviting your ex over. Grow up and break up

Anonymous 8w

One of the only ways to avoid this bruh is looking inwards. What behavior did you accept in yourself and what behavior did you accept to be treated with?

Anonymous 8w

It will be hard but you definitely need to leave her you deserve so much better and i promise you, she doesnt care about you. The kast thing you want is for her to get pregnant and then you are tied down to her. You WILL and i mean WILL find another girl that will love you and take care of you and you wont have to go through things like this

Anonymous 8w

Anonymous 8w

Just leave her. You deserve so much better bruh

Anonymous 8w

i think you know you shouldn’t let her come over. the question is, how much do you resent that time in the relationship, how much did it hurt and sting, and is it enough to keep you from doing it anyway?

Anonymous 8w

What’s the story?

Anonymous 8w

Women like this create cheaters and I feel bad about it. Nothing happened that night. She even said she’ll stay and give me another chance. She left once then I left once. But I got drunk and then she has the balls to tell everyone about how I was the asshole prior to all of this. If she would have just given me the time of day everyday I wouldn’t have to seek attention. I want her so bad but am I being played now because she wants to be friends with benefits? We had 3 rounds yesterday like smh

Anonymous

#1 8w

Oh it gets worse and there’s way more to it. She claims she’s happy rn that we’re friends with benefits. She said see baby we’re happier when we’re just best friends. A relationship is not what we need rn. It’s not our time.

Anonymous

OP 8w

Ok clearly she’s toxic and you just need to be done with her, but uhhhhhh “women like this create cheaters”? Nah cheating on someone makes you a cheater. No matter the gender. Can’t blame someone else for cheating, it’s all on you. (I mean the general you, not you OP)

Anonymous

#5 8w

Understand that. I just wish she showed me that she cared so much. The fact that she’s happy now that we’re friends with benefits and being in a closed relationship goes to show that she was the one that screwed up.

Anonymous

#8 8w

Understood. But fk I love her to death. The fact that she’s happy rn while being in a closed relationship again with me as friends with benefits makes 0 sense. We used to do it 2-3 times a week. The whole relationship. But now she’s all over me like crazy. 3 rounds a day like wtf. Why couldn’t she have shown me she cared while being in a relationship before with me?

Anonymous

OP 8w

Her doing that much with u now shows that she wants attention, is struggling with her inner self and is using you. Love and relationships is about trust and commitment.

Anonymous

#8 8w

Imagine a relationship where u 1) KNEW that she was actually fine with being called ur gf, and 2) didnt have to worry about how she thought of you or who she is with

Anonymous

#8 8w

But also remember that ur own actions play a role too so for now take time to heal and dont escalate the situation by inviting ur ex

Anonymous

#8 8w

So stay with her and be friends with benefits? Or leave the entire situation and not go back to my ex? The thing is we have an apt together so it’s kinda hard not to be around her when we live and sleep together.

Anonymous

#2 8w

If I told you the entire story. It would be as long as the Bible. 😂

Anonymous

OP 8w

Lmaoooo oh nooo 😭

Anonymous

OP 8w

I understand the situation better after rereading everything such crazyyy work 😭I hope everything works out soon

Anonymous

#6 8w

Yes so true

Anonymous

#2 8w

Thank you!! 🙏