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AITA 12w

Aita for secretly wishing my bsf and her bf would break up ok let me explain, it’s her first bf ever and we don’t talk as much as we used to and im so happy for her but also mourning how our friendship used to be

Anonymous 12w

I think you need other friends. As much as it may such for you, this is her FIRST boyfriend. She's going to be excited and want to spend a lot of time with her bf and for a lot of firsy timers there is a struggle with prioritizing friendships and romantic relationships at the same time. Just a learning curve you both have to get through

Anonymous 12w

I don’t mean this rudely, but if you were truly happy for her don’t you think you wouldn’t secretly wish they would break up? If you were in her position don’t you think you’d be the same way? Idk maybe have a convo with her about hanging out and stuff. I always think about when my friends get married.. it’s just a natural part of growing up to not have as much time to spend with certain people. Just my take!

Anonymous 12w

Bc when she gets broken up with she’ll have nobody lol.

Anonymous 12w

Um yeah and no

Anonymous 11w

Play her tv by Billie eilish and hope for the best

Anonymous

#3 12w

I do have other friends she’s just been my best friend for a while yk and I was hoping after them being together like 9 months now it’d get easier but idek

Anonymous 12w

No it’s totally fair to miss your friend, but secretly wishing they would break up contradicts being happy for your friend. I have 100% experienced this, and it does suck. But wishing a breakup upon my friend is not something that has ever crossed my mind.