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bf has this girl friend who can be rude to me and she texted him asking if they could hangout on her bday since she has no one else around but she chose to be in that situation. I told him I don’t feel comfortable with him going. AITA
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Anonymous 14w

Absolutely nta

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Anonymous 14w

NTA u let him know u were uncomfortable and if she wanted she could’ve invited u both out since she has “no one around” in short fuck that ho

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Anonymous 14w

NTA

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Anonymous 13w

Using the excuse that she has no one else is just weird. Like why are you trying to pity someone into hanging out with you? It’s like she knows he would say no otherwise so she is trying to use leverage. As others have said is she truly just wants friends she should have invited you both. Also the fact she’s rude to you??? I’m not sure what boundaries you have discussed with your bf but I know my bf would immediately drop ANYONE who was rude to me and vice versa.

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Anonymous 14w

Go with him or let him go, don’t be ta just to control who he sees

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

If she’s a dick to her it’s understandable to be upset about this. She shouldn’t be saying “you can’t do this” but very much in the right to let him know it makes her uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

That’s a great point! If she’s lonely, she should be glad to potentially have another friend (op).

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