Anonymous #1 5d

like what

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Anonymous OP 5d

The kind of ceremony, if other important people to her will be there, has she gone to things for you in the past, how much notice you gave her, if you’ve not gone in the past, if something big is happening that’s stopping you etc.?

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Anonymous #1 5d

it’s an awards ceremony. the ppl she “will go to war for” will be there. i went last year with her other friend and we just kind of sat there bc she went and hung out with other ppl. i told i might be able to come a week ago when she mentioned it. she hasn’t even told me where and what time it is and it’s tmr. she knows i work full time and in school. i also have a midterm and so much hw to do tmr. like she isn’t really telling me the deets so i don’t feel obligated that i have to go

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Anonymous #1 5d

i’m just so mentally exhausted from working and then being around her. all she talks about is boys, dates, this program that she might get an award for, and herself. and whenever i talk she’s always on her phone or she just doesn’t even ask about my life. so i just really don’t want to deal with that this weekend

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Anonymous OP 5d

Oh then it sounds like you two just aren’t aligned in the ways you’d need to be to stay friends. NTA

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Anonymous #1 5d

and the fact that i texted her 2 days ago & she just straight up left me on read. i hardly initiate conversations bc it’s her texting me every time and it’s always something related to her. and im just not a big texter so yeah

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Anonymous OP 5d

I mean if she isn’t even telling you where or when it’s at that’s not really on you for not going or changing your plans lol

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