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AITA 1w
you’re lame if you do IVF instead of adopting when you’re having fertility issues
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Anonymous 1w

You’re lame for posting this.

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Anonymous 1w

Upvote if you agree OP is an asshole in this scenario

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Anonymous 1w

Not everyone wants to adopt and that’s their choice. How about you go shame the people having children they don’t want.. makes more sense in my opinion.

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Anonymous 1w

honestly, as someone who’s family member did foster care, it takes a special person to adopt those children, they come from way different circumstances and require a lot of reworking of their brains to be “normal”, not everyone is cut out for adoption and would make a good adoptive parent.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

nope. put that money towards giving an already living child a good home. if you can’t love a child unless it has your genes then you won’t make a good parent anyway. you’re just doing it for the social status of “look my legacy lives on” and not bc you genuinely want to be a parent and give a child a good life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

What if the person wanted to experience pregnancy? As a mother myself being pregnant and carrying the baby is another special part about becoming a mom. That doesn’t take away from the joys of adoption though.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I agree this is a weird thing to shame someone for.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

sometimes it wasn’t meant to happen and that’s unfortunate but 🤷‍♀️ life isn’t fair

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I’m saying if you couldn’t be a good parent to a non biological child then you’re just not a good parent and you’re having kids for the wrong reasons

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Nothing personal: but literally the page is asking “AITA?” So I’m leaving my answer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

? girl what’s your problem they can just upvote the comments they agree with or leave their own

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

that’s a COMPLETELY different topic and if you want to discuss that then go make your own post

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

As someone who’s not a woman: it’s not my place to tell others what to do, but I’m just sharing an opinion lmao.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Fair, guess I just wanted to leave my opinion. Though next time maybe try making a clear statement too lmao.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

you still seem to have to problem being in women’s business. you already made your stand. if you “didn’t want to tell women what to do” then you would’ve just scrolled. you can share your opinion, it’s not changing mine, but own up to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

you should’ve just left your original comment up bc this one’s a bad look for you. you can and SHOULD be able to disagree without feeling the need to insult me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Again just leaving my opinion, not trynna insult you. Feel free to get mad, but that was not my intention.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

like I said in my original comment before you deleted yours, you need to learn to own up to your reactions. you seem to think saying “it’s just an opinion” means you don’t have to take responsibility for what you just said. work on that. anyway, this is my cue to turn off notifs for this post bc no comment is gonna make me change my mind.

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