no, it’s your space too

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Not a dorm student, but from what I've heard and read most schools do not allow this. Overnight guests need permission, and even then there's a stay limit.

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No! I had the exact same issue. Its definitely worth bringing up with them and talking about boundaries. Its a hard conversation to have, but my roommate was understanding and has been better about limiting the time hes in our dorm. Wishing you luck!

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Nta, but yta if you don’t bring it up. Just have a convo like the adult that you are.

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Report it to the ra and you don’t even have to deal with it. The ra enforcing rules does

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nta

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No, you’re not at all! My roommate wouldn’t have him here daily like this, but every week/multiple times a week was not it for me. I hated being forced out of the room because she wanted alone time with him because it’s OUR room. So I did talk to her about it and it was a little bit awkward, but we’re genuinely friends and she has been so much better about it and he barely comes here at all now🙂‍↕️ Anyway, you got this!

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did you talk to your roommate? it’s your space too

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