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My hg asked me to go see that new conjuring movie with her and i told her i’d check with my girl if it was cool with her she said no so i respected it then i woke up this morning and thought she’s over here going to bars and shi with her friends and…..
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Anonymous 1w

only telling me she’s going not asking for telling me who she’s with or nun and i let it slide bc i didn’t wanna be insecure or weird or nun but now she’s not comfortable with me going to a movie with my hg and i feel some type of way about it so AITA?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

NTA, your girl insecure for not being able to reciprocate and match your energy on that. not coming at her for it but you gotta admit that’s hypocritical

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i’m saying and like idk her friends idk if they are m or f idk nothing about them and i don’t say anything bc ik my girl is better than that and she knows that i wouldn’t do no stupid shi like that so i’m like what’s the issue here

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

in the future, set a boundary and ask her to communicate who she’s going out with. once the expectation exists, she will show you what’s rlly up based on how she responds

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

like yeah she might be better than that bro, but sometimes we can believe others to be better than they actually are, so make sure you’re on the same page w her always and be honest about how you feel

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

thank you for that imma talk to her about it later today

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

ofc man, fight for the relationship you care about, miscommunication is your biggest enemy

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