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AITA for getting mad at my bsf because i've been trying to hang for two months and she "can't" everytime even tho ik she's off work and somehow has time for her bf and not me but she puts no effort into seeing me?
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Anonymous 9w

I mean, have you communicated these feeling to her? What have you tried planning-wise? Two months isn’t that long to adult people with jobs and partners. Sometimes you just need a minute to recharge from work alone and it’s not a slight against anyone. And spending time with your partner is different from spending time with your friends, you can usually put in less effort (like not go out, have them stay over, etc).

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Anonymous 6w

NTA but like doesn’t this just happen to everyone eventually?

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