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AITA for wanting to date tall guys because i’m a very tall woman? the dudes in my life are making me feel bad for expressing that. like im not refusing to date shorter or anything, id just prefer him to be taller 😭big height gaps make me feel weird idk
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Anonymous 1d

NTA at all. It's just a preference. You shouldn't be made to feel bad about being attracted to what you're attracted to 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous 18h

NTA for a preference, but my girlfriend is like 4in taller than me and we are awesome together. Just don’t pass on someone who might make you happy bc of that.

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Anonymous 18h

Who are “the dudes in your life” and are they shorter than your preferred height😭

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Anonymous 15h

No, but you also have to accept when men voice preferences, such as weight.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

I think changeable characteristics and non changeable should be split off together if that makes sense. Like height and ethnicity should be their own thing and like weight and income and drinking / smoking habits should be their own thing.

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