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AITA? My boyfriend had sex with me while I was drunk and I barely remembered it. I told him I think he took advantage of me and he thinks I’m calling him a grapist… we only started dating 3 months ago and I’m worried this will ruin our relationship.
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Anonymous 5w

This is a crime. It my state, it meets the statutory definition of criminal sexual conduct in the third degree because it involves a sexual battery of an incapacitated/intoxicated person. It’s a felony punishable by imprisonment. Rape is a crime of violence, not of pleasure. You are potentially in danger being around someone like your boyfriend.

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Anonymous 5w

hey babe he raped you. you know in your gut and so does he, that’s why he got defensive.

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Anonymous 5w

have you had sex with him before this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

i agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

100%.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Hey so this is a crime, consent matters and if you were intoxicated and didn’t consent that’s still rape even if you’re dating or married. Contact your local police please or at least leave him I know it’s scary but if he’s being saying your calling him a grapist ( which he is even if you don’t wanna admit it yet) and shaming you I’d run fast.

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