Do I give him any grace bc of his last relationship? It was pretty bad with issues of the gf being controlling and logged in to literally everything. Including Apple ID…. He says he still struggles and is still trying to figure it out when I mention anything that is “controlling” in a way.
An unconditional rule in relationships: If you feel uncomfortable with something, it’s best to express it immediately, rather than risk building mistrust and resentment. Express that it bothers you and you’d like it if he’d unadd them. You can’t make him do anything, but You guys should at the least try and talk it. If he responds with hostility, you have something else to think about.