Anonymous mother_russia 12w

No like he doesn’t have any issue like that. He’s PURPOSEFULLY being onnoxious. Like he’ll lift up his leg to fart and look for my reaction

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Anonymous OP 12w

Oh yeah 100% break up. You’re dating a middle schooler at that point

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Anonymous #9 12w

Facts do something abt it instead of posting online

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Anonymous #2 12w

Yes?

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Anonymous #7 12w

I’m not like that.

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Anonymous #9 12w

This is AITA bruh

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Anonymous OP 12w

And your post is just you complaining about the farting

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Anonymous #9 12w

Pk!? It’s beyond that AITA for anting to leave him over him being OBNOXIOUS

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Anonymous OP 12w

Ik that’s why I said to tell him that you’re on the verge of leaving him then. That will yield better results than asking for our opinion.

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Anonymous #9 12w

…I have bro ?? I’m trying to make sure I’m in line

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Anonymous #19 12w

It’s a type of nursing certification I think it stands for “certified nursing assistant”

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Anonymous mother_russia 12w

Yes. I am a CNA/certified nurse assistant. I take care of extreme cases of bodily fluids of all types and care for all people with NO judgement. I’m not grossed out by a casual or accidental fart or poop I’m not like that. It’s the fact he is PURPOSEFULLY trying to be gross that bothers me

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Anonymous OP 12w

I always tell my patients not to be embarrassed and things happen but he’s just OBNOXIOUS yknow?

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Anonymous OP 12w

Ok then yea ur valid

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Anonymous #2 12w

Bro if it’s bad enough that she’s losing attraction cmon. Out of all of the “icks” you can get from a human this one is by far the most reasonable😂

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Anonymous #12 12w

He knows I don’t like to do it around him, I try to be quiet or polite I even joke that I don’t fart or poop so I think that makes his “habits” more amusing to him

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Anonymous #13 12w

I’m bi, so I have lol! 😂

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Anonymous #21 12w

I do talk to him

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Anonymous OP 12w

Become clearer and make a stern tone, clearly it’s not working. Why did you break up with your ex? Bc he ———-

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Anonymous OP 12w

Why be “in line” when it comes to your life and how you feel?

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Anonymous #21 12w

I’m not a doormat.. I literally tell him it’s gross and I have an issue with it and I tell him it’s not funny. There’s no miscommunication, he thinks me being irritated is funny. Other than that we have no issues but it’s like when he farts he looks for my reaction or tries to kiss me while laughing and I push him away and it happens ALL THE TIME

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Anonymous #22 12w

True.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Maybe it’s time for you to take a break. So he can feel how it is greatly effecting you.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Tbh you already know how you feel, so you should just address it instead of asking us because we aren’t there everyday, you are.

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Anonymous #9 12w

1. Wtf is AITA for then? 2. Why do people assume others rush over here as their first resort? We’re (hopefully) grown, ofc they talked to the person about it first tf

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Anonymous #25 12w

My whole thing is that if it’s a cardinal flaw and you’re willing to break up over it then others’ opinions shouldn’t matter. It’s a very personalized issue.

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Anonymous #12 12w

I know.. all I was saying is if she hadn’t asked him to stop, he may be assuming she also thinks it’s funny, but if she has told him then it’s especially gross, immature and childish

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Anonymous #21 12w

You don’t use breaking up as a way to get someone back. Someone disrespecting your boundaries constantly after you’ve stated them clearly is not someone you want to date. It’s not about getting him to apologize or recognize how greatly it’s effecting op, it’s just about recognizing he doesn’t care and thinks it’s funny to push boundaries and that’s not someone you should date and isn’t something that will change from one break up.

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Anonymous #24 12w

Most childish shit ever. We get it. You don’t get pussy

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Anonymous #22 12w

I mean, they're still together, #24's objectively right

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Anonymous #29 12w

You can date someone without having sex with them??

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