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A friend I don’t see all that often was telling are small group that she has hospital bills, rent, car insurance, and other things due. She hasn’t flat out asked for money but was definitely hinting at it. She also posts pics with her deadbeat bf. (1/2)
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Anonymous 11w

(2/2) I just told her “dang that’s crazy.” My other friend was wondering why I didn’t offer to send her money. AITA

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Anonymous 11w

Not at all, that’s entitled of her to think that you owe her money

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Something I learned in therapy is to be forward, if she didn’t ask for money, don’t feel bad for not offering it, if she wanted it she would have communicated it, instead of hinting, perhaps those weren’t hints and you just took it the wrong way, which is why clear communication is important. Don’t send her money

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