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AITA 10w
Would I be in the wrong if I just stopped talking with my bsf? Reason being they’re dating this person that they met like a week or two ago and whenever there is a guy involved no one else matters or exists. She has my support no matter what but when it
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Anonymous 10w

Whenever there’s a guy involved the mix they become a different person and the only time I’m ever seen as a person of “interest” to her is when there’s not a guy present or when the person she’s talking to goes away/pisses her off. I’m just done being the back plan for when things go wrong. Also this is not the only reason it’s just the most recent and I’m done because I just feel used and I’m giving my all only to receive barely anything back.

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Anonymous 10w

NTA. Step away find some new friends, maybe eventually she will learn to be a better friend to you but the more that you keep staying around the less she will respect you. Sorry

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Anonymous 10w

Is this their first relationship? Either way Tell them this and how you feel ignored. Not bc it may change things but give yourself a chance to explain. Then yeah it’s ok to step away if you’re feeling ignored. They’ll either figure it out or be all googol eyes for several months

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Anonymous 10w

Yes you would be wrong, I have made this exact mistake literally just tell her that you’re happy but can you talk about something else. Let her have mistakes, and be in love with people she just met

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

This isn’t her first relationship she’s done this several times before with other relationships and I just always end up being the fall back for when things go wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

See I’ve tried to have this conversation and I’m fine with her making mistakes as that’s how people typically learn but where my issue comes from is like I mentioned I have tried to have a conversation with her and then she automatically went into a defensive stance then began making jabs at me in response not only that I’ve asked her to change topics to which she just says that I’m jealous which isn’t the case

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Oh nvm f her up ur totally in the right 👍

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