Moving in with a partner and marrying someone are two completely different things and I feel moving in together is something that should come before marriage so you can see if living together is something you’d be able to tolerate and marriage before a stable career IS a bad idea, so while you’re not really TA for thinking like that, you’re definitely comparing two VERY different situations

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i personally think both ur situations r immature decisions😭

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bf of less than 1 year (same ages). They were moving an hour away from their parents in a town in the middle of nowhere and suddenly it was all cool and “i’m so proud of you guys” but they were unapproved for the apartment and i couldn’t help but feel kind of like it was karma am i the asshole?

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