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AITA 19w
Her friend has invited her to a motorcycle club a few times now, which she’s always out till 2 am, and idk if I’m comfortable with it bc I have never heard a single good thing about them, but idk how to say it without seeming like an asshole
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Anonymous 19w

Why not just ask her to update you if she needs anything while she's out? I mean I'm assuming she's an adult and can decide whether she should hang out with someone or not. I could understand the concern about their safety while being till 2 am, but otherwise, it just sounds a bit weird?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19w

Yeah I’ve said that but it typically feels like radio silence. She’s put herself in situations before where not so good things have happened, so I feel like ofc I’m gonna be concerned, as motorcycle clubs don’t have the best reputation. aka hard drugs, a lot of drinking, fights and stuff like that, not even mentioning the other activities they’re also known for.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19w

Also thank you for giving me some actual advice

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