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It’s terrifying how many people are willing to dismiss childhood abuse with “But that’s still you mom/dad though…”
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Anonymous 14w

Mental or physical it don’t matter abuse is abuse regardless of who the person is

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Anonymous 14w

Seeing all these comments makes me realized how privileged one is to even come from a normal family…

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Anonymous 14w

Bro I even had a school counselor tell me that. Like wtf. Not to mention I had family just want to sweep stuff under the rug when I got SA’d by a family member

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Anonymous 14w

YES oh my god. I’m supposed to still be chill with my abusers just because they’re also my parents? I don’t think so. If that relationship wasn’t strong enough to give them second thoughts about hurting me the way they did, then it sure as all hell ain’t a reason to forgive.

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Anonymous 14w

When I tell ppl that my dad and stepmom literally emptied my bedroom, threw my stuff to the curb, and then called the cops on me, while also telling my other fam horrible lies about me, but then say “but you’ll make up with him eventually, you need to let that go” like nahhh they are cut ✂️ out of my life FOR GOOD

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Anonymous 14w

currently going through no contact with both of my parents. the amount of times i hear “but those are your parents”. BUT IM THE KID and i never should’ve been treated in that way.

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Anonymous 14w

or they hit you with the “they’re your elders, you gotta respect them no matter what”

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Anonymous 14w

No kidding. It’s actually so ridiculous

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 14w

And I’m never going to✌️

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 14w

i’ve never even thought about how the calling the cops thing was part of the manipulation tactic. idk why like it seems obvious, but i guess i just got used to my parents doing that??

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