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AITA for telling my friend to stop saying “it’s cunty” “it’s serving cunt” when we’re adults on a trip with middle schoolers. If it makes a difference we were also in Japan and she’s kinda loud. Yes, other people have posted about her, 4 of us have YY
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Anonymous 12w

No she gotta stop that 😭

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Anonymous 12w

Report her to whoever is in charge of the trip you’re on bc she’s using inappropriate language in front of them. That’s a big no no

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Anonymous 12w

as someone who works with kids, this is NOT ok. i was a little thrown off by a friend saying “damn” repeatedly around kids. you should NEVER swear around kids ever if you’re the chaperone/adult/guardian, ESPECIALLY with the word cunt😭😭

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Anonymous 12w

Yeah no that’s not okay around the kids

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Anonymous 12w

I think she’s probably naive but definitely needs to cut it off. Personally I’d give her grace but tell her if she continues to say it then you won’t feel comfortable being around her anymore due to people correlating you two with each other

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Anonymous 12w

excuse me can i work with you

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Anonymous 12w

Yeah that’s inappropriate

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I don’t want to report her bc I don’t want to not be invited on the trips. They are wanting me to chaperone (basically free to half price) in the future bc the kids love me so much and I do well with them and I’m trying to not mess up my chances. So far I don’t think they want her back anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Why wouldn’t you be invited back if you report her? If anything they’d want you back even more bc you’re being a responsible chaperone and informing them of issues regarding the children

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Bc they see us as a package deal most of the time but I think this trip the lead is seeing that she’s not responsible and is kinda rude/annoying lmao so ye. Like she’s not responsible enough to chaperone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Reporting her will probably go against their view that yall are a package deal, so it’ll probably stop them from thinking that

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