why is he slutshaming you and bringing up how many guys you have been with?? hello that has nothing to do with the issue yall were having. any man who loves you wouldn’t say weirdo dumbass shit like that. it really shows how he views you. yall have been together for 3 whole years if you’re not gonna get married then wtf r u guys doing? idk that’s weird and the fact he doesn’t agree with you to me sounds like he is staying with you just for the time being until someone “better” comes along
but i understand how hard it is to leave because i also have a weirdo boyfriend and i can’t leave either :/ i just wanted to let you know that shit isn’t normal sorry if it came off aggressive. it takes time to finally leave and it helps having others acknowledge the fact that how your boyfriend is treating you isn’t normal. one day you’ll realize that you deserve better