yo just the way that guy shows you his observations is disgusting and is very telling to him as a person if someone says “I can manipulate you so easy” they fucking mean it, and will lie to you like they never said it, or then say they did it to protect or help or some bs. I know it hurts, it will, feel it and know they don’t understand love in a virtuous way, so what they say and do isn’t personal because it can’t be, something selfish like that hurts those around, and isnt anyone’s fault