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My bf dropped an album and music video about his ex a week before asking me to be his gf. I asked if he could take down at least the specific songs bc it makes me uncomfortable, but he said no bc it’s his "art". Idk if I’m overthinking or boundary setting
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Anonymous 10w

I see validity on both sides here. On one hand, you’re perfectly valid to feel that way, and on the other that’s something he put a lot of time and effort into. If he was already working on it (including planning it) when you two started talking then I don’t really see an issue with it, but if he only started it after you got together then I’d think he’s still hung up on her a bit. Overall I’d say you shouldn’t really worry about it tho, at least not unless he starts making new music ab her

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