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i just found out the guy who sexually assaulted me had a girlfriend. do i tell her and how do i
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Anonymous 5d

Unless it makes you uncomfortable do it. Just reach out and explain what happened and say you thought she should know

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Anonymous 5d

GIRL SAME. i’m more angry he gets to move on all fine but im still over here struggling g

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Anonymous 4d

I think this is highly dependent on how you feel about it. Firstly, I’m so sorry this happened to you. Secondly, she may not know that he’s that type of person but you also should prepare for potential backlash as she could “come after” you in defense of her BF. Some girls are not girls girls and would defend their man no matter what but I think if I was in her situation I would want to know 100% so I can cut all ties off with that POS but not everyone is like that unfortunately…

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Anonymous 4d

I mean you can try but sometimes these women already know and don’t care

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

If you feel safe and in a good place mentally to let her know I would reach out (maybe anonymously if he knows you so they don’t retaliate?) and hopefully she breaks up with that vile excuse of a man and you can find closure. Either way, it’s important to take care of yourself first. If you are not in a good place this could mess you up more mentally if it doesn’t go well. Lastly, I want to tell you that you are strong and resilient. You deserve to find peace and I’m so sorry this happened

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

to you. Do what you feel is best for you above all in this moment and when you feel ready, if you do, you can always reach out to her in a little bit so you can get to a better place. Take care ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

thank you i appreciate u❤️

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