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Is it really that much of an ick to people if I respond too fast?? I grew up with everyone ignoring me so I don’t ignore other people unless I have no choice but fr someone tell me 😭😭😭
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Anonymous 2w

i usually explain to people that i don’t reply fast or send a lot of texts because im trying to rush them to reply, and i don’t want them to feel pressured if they are busy. it helps my relationships a lot and keeps me from overthinking it

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Anonymous 2w

I’ve been told I’m “too much” because I reply fast and like to yap, it’s only happened once though so tbh it’s probably not that much of an ick as you think

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Anonymous 2w

honestly ive never had issues with people telling me i text too fast, but that might just be bc all my friends are yappers LMAO. but i think its just a loud minority of people who get icked out by it to be honest, everyone i know/have known has zero issue with it i think it helps to explain that you arent double texting or texting fast to pressure them, and its just the way you type/text :) doing that has almost always helped in my experience

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Anonymous 2w

Is that an ick?? I’ve gen never had anyone complain about me responding quickly 😭😭 that’s so weird

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Anonymous 2w

I like how it's bad to reply quickly OR slowly. Awesome communication method.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Like nothing is right then what do they want 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I appreciate this bc i genuinely like to talk with people who are interesting to talk to but i dont want to be too much as ive been told so many times

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Literally lol, I think another big issue is that whenever i meet someone online a lot of the time they turn out to be the driest texter ever and very few are as yappy as me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Apparently… I get told all the time that it is and that I do it 😭😭

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