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Hey guys so I kind of need others opinion. I not really sure if I am ace. I have never had any desire until my first relationship and kissing was so boring that I thought about doing sexual things but never ever ever sex. Then we broke up for that reason.
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Anonymous 12w

You could be! Being ace just means having little-to-no sexual attraction, rather than complete repulsion/disinterest in sex overall (though that is the case for some aces). What you’ve described definitely sounds asexual to me.

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Anonymous 12w

Now I am having thoughts about sexual things but I never have in my entire life. And I am not even attracted really to them anymore so I am not really sure why I am having those thoughts. But if I have them does that mean I am not ace? Like I would NEVER have sex. And I don’t even enjoy it or want it. I just thinking about and idk why.

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Anonymous 12w

*the break up was from me not wanting any sex and the other person wanting it. Also even when we tried little sexual things I hated it, it was okay towards the end but like didn’t love it

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Anonymous 12w

If you really don’t feel less to any sexually attraction then you would be considered as ace from my standpoint I believe you might be ace

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I meant to say little but you get the point I identify as ace and feel the same way you do

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