how do u know if you’re on the aroace spectrum? i’ve never had a crush (despite longing for a relationship) and i don’t think ive ever been like… sexually attracted to someone? like i don’t look at someone and get horny. helppp (im a lesbian for context)
actually idk why i said sad looking back on it?? i think im more frustrated when it comes to figuring out my sexuality esp when ive identified as an allo lesbian for YEARS. ts is complicated