Asexual/Aromantic on Yik Yak | I get a really high libido and don’t really know what to do, cause my partner is very ace and I am too really, the idea of anyone touching me sends me into a bit of panic attack but I feel icky when I hide from them to fix it myself

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Asexual/Aromantic 12w

I get a really high libido and don’t really know what to do, cause my partner is very ace and I am too really, the idea of anyone touching me sends me into a bit of panic attack but I feel icky when I hide from them to fix it myself

Anonymous 12w

Why don’t you masturbate?

Anonymous 12w

Like I told them that them being ace doesn’t bug me at all (it doesn’t) and that I don’t think about it a lot (I don’t) but those moments when I literally can’t seem to do anything else until I just make the feeling go away I feel like I’m a liar. I don’t want them to touch me, I don’t want them to watch me, but like I also need to fix it

Anonymous

#1 12w

That’s what I do, but I end up doing it in like the shower or somewhere that I’m not going to be seen because I feel like I have to hide it from them, I don’t like the horny feeling but I’ll end up awake for nights at a time if I don’t handle it and I feel like I’m hiding from them or being a bad partner

Anonymous

OP 12w

Why can’t they know that you masturbate? They don’t have to be present/involved in any way, but there’s no reason to hide the fact that you do it

Anonymous

#1 12w

I don’t think they’d be upset if they found out, they’re not like that, I just feel like icky? afterwards and shamed or panicked I guess and I feel torn from wanting to stay hidden and wanting them with me, but I also don’t want them to see me at all? I guess the hiding part is probably trauma, the person that molested me always made me hide it so idk

Anonymous

OP 9w

What has happened since then? They aren’t demented right? Just talk it out. They probably felt the change and is trying to bring it up.